SAVE THE CHILDREN SAVE THE SOCIETY: Aditi Chattopadhyay

    

SAVE THE CHILDREN SAVE THE SOCIETY 

Aditi Chattopadhyay  

Today Child safety is big big problem. In running day's man & women they all are busy in their own Life. For earning livelihood husband and wife both now have to work and leave home for their office and work places. When parents go to their office the children feel lonely. Sometimes they remain busy with their education, home work and their own hobbies.

But mostly they spend their time with the governess who are found iresponsible . They do not take proper care for the fair growth of children and kids are addicted to bad food, and the adolescent ones to alcohol and even drugs. Our society is class based financially and from community standards.The upper class people have more money and live in luxury while others live from hand to mouth. While the rich spend money like water poor have no money to buy their essentials of every day life.The rich buy lot of things.They visit all over the world.The children eat junk food, they buy all luxurious items.They visit night club, bar, disco, pub etc.The poor people try to imitate them and fall into traps of smugglers and drug peddlers.They forget their own culture in going to imitate the rich. The poor children do not respect their family as their parents cannot afford to give them life’s basic comforts. Money is not a big thing but for the poor it is the be all and end all of life. So they think if they have a lot of money then they can fulfil their life’s every goal. But in going to do that their children grow with false ideals. Unfortunately they lose their mental peace. One cannot buy mental peace with billion dollars. In many places we notice that the upper class family attends party where they spend time with each other.But such parties are totally meaningless gatherings and they gain nothing but short lived sensation and exciting entertainment. By pouring costly champagne one cannot achieve great goals or bring happiness to family. Mother drinking wine in front of children instigate bad habits . Such family people lose values of life.The whole family gets addicted to drugs and drinking.The younger family members disrespect the elders.The upper class children meet their parents only on breakfast or dinner table and all bonding is gone with the wind gradually as the children grow and start living a chaotic life. In a house every family member is an earning member, so they forget to care for each other.Today's life is dominated by social media. More time in the house we see every member being busy their own mobile phone.They are lost in the digital AI world. More significantly they stay in the same house without being mentally connected.The children are sent to complete their education to boarding or hostel but they are detached from their parents. Parents can carefully watch and help their children grow but they hardly get such chances. Because, the situation does not go well with their work. Poor children are sent to workplace or sold to child smugglers and human traffickers. Children are mentally broken and some girl children are abused by anybody at any place.The parents are usually more than focused and alert, because it's their duty or responsibility. 

In our society middle class family are more often than not the real sufferers.There is a huge price hike and increasing petrol & disel price cause hardship. Because middle class family people do not have lot of money.They have to spend their money for livelihood and little left for luxury. In a middle class family boys and girls have lot of dreams in their eyes.They strugglemuch more in every situation

They suffer, they are doing hard work and they achieve lots of experiences. Money is not the solution to all problem, though some people think this way. In practical life real money is a solution to problem. But sometimes someone cannot buy money for example kindness, soft heart, backbone, vitrue blessings, purity, love, helpful mind extra. Day by day population explosion occurs in our society but the dirty minds do not get clear. Materialistic happiness is the will O’ the Wisp. In middle class & lower class family in India we see money as a big problem. So their children cannot complete their proper education. Boys are going to other state, to join other migrant labour. In other states as migrant labour they are working hard, many times they go with a huge energy in loaded trains or buses only to come back like corpses or Foreign citizens . deadbody. Some boys are found doing job in hotel, restaurants , dhaba, itvata, shoping mall. Small salary they earn but they lose their full energy.They do a lot of hard work.

Girls suffer more. Now we may focus on their much suffering. In society marriage of girls is a curse. Dowry system causes headache to their parents. In some areas girls earn and the girls are found working somewhere even in domestic areas.Then they are sexsulity harassed. In many more cases forcefully girls are involved in sex work.They go totally spoiled and finished.The inocent girls are victims of kidnapping. Police investigation is done in some cases but nothing effective is done for rescuing them and rehabilitating them . They are found running belted skelter but their life is totally spoiled. In post Covid time we see that boys and girls are unable to complete their education.Boys can go to another state. And there they are left with one option ‘labouring’ or menial jobs. And the girls are compelled to do household works. In the rural area, and border area we notice girls being sold by their own family members. They trust their relatives. And the relatives sell girls to kinnaper or gangsters.In those poor families sometimes the big problem is is marriage of marriageable girls.The dowry problem is big big problem in our society 

Today’s child, will become a gentleman or a responsible lady tomorrow. Sometimes a new born baby is regarded as a curse. I tell one story of a Rahul who is rich but a small family. By profession he is a software engineer. He lives in Washington, USA. His parents live in India. But uncontrolled drugs, alcohol that Rahul took regularly made him lose his job. After 6 months rahul much more addicted to alcohol suddenly lost life in a car accident. Sometimes the economically poor family people's are thinking their daughter are big problem.Their marriage perpus dowry is big big problem. Some parents marry their daughters to wrong families.They don't collect any information earlier.The daughter is killed by their in laws . Education is powerful weapon in fighting these menaces School, college, hospital, house every where our first priority is child safety , because if a child is safe then a society can boast of safety . Nelson Mandela says " Education is most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." A farmer's son will not become a farmer and a doctor's son will not become a doctor.So please save our children, specially save girl children so that in future they can flourish like a flower blooming in the sun . We can save girls by giving them proper education, proper food, proper social ambience then we can say that our society is a safe place to live in. A girl of today is mother of tomorrow and mothers can save the society from being perished. Mothers can bring new morning 

( Aditi Chattopadhyay is a freelance writer and lover of nature and children. She is a social activist and writes on social problems rebated to women and children)

Aditi Chattopadhyay  

Today Child safety is big big problem. In running day's man & women they all are busy in their own Life. For earning livelihood  husband and wife both now have to work and leave home for their office and work places. When parents go to their office the children feel lonely. Sometimes they remain busy with their education, home work and their own hobbies.

But mostly they spend their time with the governess who are found iresponsible . They do not take proper care  for the fair growth of children and kids are addicted to bad food, and the adolescent ones to alcohol and even drugs. Our society is class based financially and from community standards.The upper class people have  more money and live in luxury while others live from hand to mouth. While the rich spend money like water poor have no money to buy their essentials of every day life.The rich buy lot of things.They visit all over the world.The children eat junk food, they buy all luxurious items.They visit night club, bar, disco, pub etc.The poor people try to imitate them and fall into traps of smugglers and drug peddlers.They forget their own culture in going to imitate the rich. The poor children do not respect their family as their parents cannot afford to give them life’s basic comforts. Money is not a big thing but for the poor it is the be all and  end all of life. So they think if they have a lot of money then they can fulfil their life’s every goal. But in going to do that their children grow with false ideals. Unfortunately they lose their mental peace. One cannot buy mental peace with billion dollars. In many places we  notice that the upper class family attends party where they spend time with each other.But such parties are totally meaningless gatherings and they gain nothing but short lived sensation and exciting entertainment. By pouring costly champagne one cannot achieve great goals or bring happiness to family. Mother drinking wine in front of children instigate bad habits . Such family people lose values of life.The whole family gets  addicted to drugs and drinking.The younger family members disrespect the elders.The upper class children meet their parents only on breakfast or dinner table and all bonding is gone with the wind gradually as the children grow and start living a chaotic life. In a house every family member is an earning member, so they forget to care for each other.Today's life is dominated by social media. More time in the house we see every member being busy their own mobile phone.They are lost in the digital AI world. More significantly they stay in the same house without being mentally connected.The children are sent to complete their education to boarding or hostel but they are detached from their  parents. Parents can carefully watch and help their children grow but they hardly get such chances. Because, the situation does not go well with their work. Poor children are sent to workplace or sold to child smugglers and human traffickers. Children are mentally broken and some girl children are abused by anybody at any place.The parents are usually more than focused and alert, because it's their duty or responsibility. 

In our society middle class family are more often than not the real sufferers.There is a huge price hike and increasing petrol & disel price cause hardship. Because middle class family people do not have lot of money.They have to spend their money for livelihood and little left for luxury. In a middle class family boys and girls have lot of dreams in their eyes.They strugglemuch more in every situation

They suffer, they are doing hard work and they achieve lots of experiences. Money is not the solution to all problem, though some people  think this way. In practical life real money is a solution to problem. But sometimes someone cannot buy money for example kindness, soft heart, backbone, vitrue blessings, purity, love, helpful mind extra. Day by day population explosion occurs in our society but the dirty minds do not get clear. Materialistic happiness is the will O’ the Wisp. In middle class & lower class family in India we see money as a big problem. So their children cannot  complete their proper education. Boys are going to other state, to join other migrant labour. In other states as migrant labour they are working hard, many times they go with a huge energy in loaded trains or buses only to come back like corpses or Foreign citizens . deadbody. Some boys are found doing job in hotel, restaurants , dhaba, itvata, shoping mall. Small salary they  earn but they lose their full energy.They do a lot of hard work.

Girls suffer more. Now we may focus on their much suffering. In society marriage of girls is a curse. Dowry  system causes headache to their parents. In some areas girls earn and the girls  are found working somewhere even in domestic areas.Then they are sexsulity harassed. In many more cases forcefully girls are involved in sex work.They go totally spoiled and finished.The inocent girls are victims of  kidnapping. Police investigation is done in some cases but nothing effective is done for rescuing them and rehabilitating them . They are found running belted skelter but their life is totally spoiled. In post Covid time we see that boys and girls are unable to complete their education.Boys can go to another state. And there they are left with one option ‘labouring’ or menial jobs. And the girls are compelled to do household works. In the rural area, and border area we notice girls being sold by their own family members. They trust their relatives. And the relatives sell girls to kinnaper or gangsters.In those poor families sometimes the big problem is  is marriage of marriageable girls.The dowry problem is big big problem in our society 

Today’s child, will become a gentleman or a responsible lady tomorrow. Sometimes a new born baby is regarded as a curse. I tell one story of a Rahul who is rich but a small family. By profession he is a software engineer. He lives in Washington, USA. His parents live in India. But uncontrolled drugs, alcohol that Rahul took regularly made him lose his job. After 6 months rahul much more addicted to alcohol suddenly lost life in a car accident. Sometimes the economically poor family people's are thinking their daughter are big problem.Their marriage perpus dowry is big big problem. Some parents marry their daughters to wrong families.They don't collect any information earlier.The daughter is killed by their in laws . Education is powerful weapon in fighting these menaces School, college, hospital, house every where our first priority is child safety , because if  a child is safe then a society can boast of safety . Nelson Mandela says " Education is most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." A farmer's son will not become a farmer and a doctor's son will not become a doctor.So please save our children, specially save girl children so that in future they can  flourish like a flower blooming in the sun . We can save girls by giving them proper education, proper food, proper social ambience then we can say that our society is a safe place to live in. A girl of today is mother of tomorrow and mothers can save the society from being perished. Mothers can bring new morning 

( Aditi Chattopadhyay is a freelance writer and lover of nature and children. She is a social activist and writes on social problems rebated to women and children)